I remember the day I first realized that dads are better than moms. It was a typical Saturday morning and my wife had made breakfast for our family to enjoy together as we all sat down at the table. As she served up eggs, bacon, and toast, she said something about how perfect it is that our children have fathers too because there’s no one who can do what a dad does for a child as a father can. My daughter piped in with her two cents: “Dad’s way cooler!” And from then on I knew my wife was wrong- dads are not only better than moms- they’re way cooler! From their manly cookouts to their unrivaled DIY abilities, dads have a lot going for them and these qualities make them better than moms in many different ways.
I am a 41-year-old father of four ages 18 down to 3, yes I know what causes it and so I bought a tv for the bedroom. So with that and the 3-year-old who has some kind of cuddle radar we don’t have to worry about any more babies in our house. I have also been married to the best woman in the world for over 15 years. So I know that she works much harder than I do at parenting. This article is still going to explain why dads are better than moms, at least in the eyes of the dad and kids who don’t realize what’s getting done by mom behind the scenes.
Why Dads are Better Parents
In the eyes of the dad and kids who have not been around for what moms do behind the scenes, dads are better parents- especially because (in my house) they don’t have to work as hard as moms on the boring stuff. Dads know how to be fun and playful with their children, while moms can seem a bit more stern. Dads bring something unique to the table that moms do not- like the camaraderie between fathers and sons, or fathers and daughters. It is also true that dads are better at certain things that need an active male figure in a household- like outdoor sports or helping you fix your bike.
Below are our ten reasons that dads are better parents:
1) Dads are cooler.
2) Dads have more fun with kids.
3) Dads know how to be serious when it matters.
4) Dads are better at certain things moms aren’t good at- like being active or fixing stuff.
5) Dad’s don’t have as many rules as moms do.
6) Dads are better at just being there for you
7) Dads can make things fairer between siblings.
8) Dads aren’t as likely to embarrass their kids in public.
9) It is easier to talk to a dad about certain things because they already know you’re going through stuff.
10) Dads don’t have to work as hard as moms on the boring stuff. So there are more present
These are just some of our reasons that dads are better parents, especially in the eyes of kids who don’t see their mom’s behind the scenes working so hard for everyone. In the end though when the kids are growing and they see everything that mom did for them….. it’s probably a 50/50 split like it should be….. or maybe 60/40 because dads rule.
Why are Dads More Fun Than Moms
After a long day at work, I come home and the kids can’t wait to either jump on me or tell me about …..well who knows they just have things to say. Mom is in the kitchen trying to put together dinner and I can see the relief on her face as the focus is no longer on her attention but has shifted to mine. Lucky for me my workday is done and now I can be a jungle gym, a talking board, a friend to play games, a homework helper, and a handyman. All this while mom is alone in the kitchen doing boring mom things.
In my mind, the reason that dads are more fun than moms is because of two reasons. The first is that our minds work differently. Mom’s brains are like the internet, they are always firing on all kinds of things. So when the kids try to break into that network they will not only be heard but also learn about their room needing to be cleaned, why are they messing up in school, why they didn’t pick up their clothes, and 100 other things not related to listening to the kids.
Dads on the other hand have one focus and sometimes when they are really good two focuses they think on at a time. It’s more like a compartment than the internet. When we are with the kids we open up the kid’s compartment and that is our focus. When they are talking to us about their day our focus is on their day and not on what they need to fix or clean up. Now at the end of the conversation, we may open another compartment up and remind them of something but when they want our focus we are with them at the moment.
Another reason that dads are more fun is that they have no problem with video games. As a dad, if my kid wanted to I will sit with them and play a video game from the time I get home from work until my wife fusses at me that it’s time for bed. The only time I have seen mom play a game was the dance games or one time she put the VR hood on and boxed with us. It was a lot of fun but she doesn’t have the time or mindset to sit there for hours playing Minecraft or Madden.
Why are dads the best
It’s easy to answer why are dads the best. When most people think of their dad it’s thought of comfort, safety, and fun. Think about it the reason mom picked dad was because he made her feel that way. So moms don’t get mad when you kids think dad is the best. Take it as a compliment on picking a great man who made you feel all of the things that your kids now feel.
Conclusion
If you’re a dad who wants to be the best parent possible, this article is for you. As dads, we have many qualities that make us better than moms in different ways- like being able to fix stuff or knowing how to play sports with our kids. These are just some of the reasons why dads are more fun and why they should never feel bad about it! At the end of the day, both moms and dads love their children equally but do so differently.
Now as you are sitting there as a father thinking about how great your kids say you are don’t forget about mom. She is the reason you are able to do the things you do. Without her doing the hard work you would not be able to be the fun-loving guy you are at home. If you are reading this and thinking how you probably have not told your wife how much you appreciate her it may be time for a good date night. If you need a few great ideas on where to take her check out our other post on date night ideas for parents HERE.
